CLICK HERE FOR INFORMATION ON THE BUS AND DAY PRIOR

CLICK HERE FOR INFORMATION ON THE BUS AND DAY PRIOR

The day

5 October 202

updated: 7 September 2025

‘The’ Day of
Mr and Mr wolfsmith

Venue
Our wedding will be at the stunning ‘Winehouse’ in Queenstown. The setting is gorgeous, and we can’t wait to share it with you. We have organised transport to and from the venue for all guests

Attire
It’s a Black Tie with a Twist affair! We’re going formal (black tie), but we encourage you to make it your own. Think creative, fun, and classy—but most importantly, wear what makes you feel fabulous!
(Scroll down for more information on attire)


Order of the Day

  • 2:00 PM: Bus departs from the pick-up points (click here for stops)

  • 2:45 PM: Arrival at the venue & welcome drink

  • 3:00 PM: Ceremony

  • 3:45 PM: Celebration drinks & group photos (I know, but do not go anywhere until we get one with all of you!)

  • 5:30 PM: Drinks and festivities kick-off!

  • 6:00 PM: Walk & Fork (dinner service) commences

  • 11:30 PM: Buses depart from the venue to take everyone back to town

  • 12:00 AM: Kick offs in town (make sure you bring ID, some places want ID regardless of age, dolls)

    Some of you have kindly asked about gifts. If you’d like to give us something, we’ll have a wishing well on the day — however we understand you are traveling all this way and your presence is the greatest gift of all xx

    If you have any questions, feel free to reach out!

& if you still need it…

…need help with getting to QT?
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…need help with accommodation?
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…need help with what to wear?
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What does Black Tie with a twist mean?

Think elegance of a black-tie occasion with a laid-back, twist of your personality. As the wedding is in the beautiful Gibbston Valley, New Zealand, the backdrop is a blend of natural beauty and relaxed sophistication.
The dress code allows for creativity while maintaining eleganza.

Some guidance below plus a mood broad to help!

Suit Style - Think a sleek suit or dinner jacket. Don’t just stop at colour, you could even consider a velvet or textured fabric.

Gown Style - A floor-length gown is still a go-to, but you can experiment with a shorter, midi-length dress or even a tailored pantsuit with dramatic flair. Look for fabrics like satin, silk, or velvet, or opt for subtle textures like lace or embroidery to give the outfit depth.

No Tie (part of the twist) - Embrace the tie-less look by replacing a traditional necktie with either a sleek, high-quality pocket square or a statement lapel pin. Alternatively, an open-neck shirt with a subtle bow tie or cravat could work as a modern touch.
Think of an elegant choker necklace or a pair of statement earrings rather than any additional neckwear. If you’re opting for a gown, choose one with an interesting neckline or back detail that doesn’t require the usual accessories.

Footwear - Polished black leather or suede dress shoes (Oxford or Derby style) should keep the look sharp. For a more relaxed vibe, loafers or dressy boots can work. Heels are classic for evening events, but an elegant flat or sandal with a metallic touch can still feel dressy and allow for more comfort, don’t rule out a good block heel ladies!

Colours/Tones/Patterns - While black is always an option, consider dark jewel tones (emerald, ruby, sapphire) or muted metallics (bronze, silver) that give off a fun lively vibe.
If you’re feeling bold, a deep floral or pattern print could be a striking option for anyone!

Outerwear - Since it’s New Zealand, a light wrap, shawl, or tailored coat may be needed depending on the weather. Think elegant but practical.

All should embrace relaxed elegance while balancing formal flirty fun with comfort. This "black tie with a twist" code invites you to show personality, so feel free to add subtle accessories or unique textures, we have linked a mood board, just click the text below!